What is Lux Sit?

In Latin Lux Sit means “Let there be light”. It is not just a cemetery or a graveyard. Lux Sit is a virtual memorial dedicated to all our loved ones. It is a safe heaven where we can remember them and their life. You can create a virtual memorial and place flowers, light candles and dedicate a few words in their memory.

Frequently asked questions

Can anyone use this virtual memorial?

Yes, anyone can pay their respects to everyone. If you wish to add a new grave, you need to be a registered user.

How much does it cost to use Lux Sit virtual memorial?

That depends on you. We offer free tombstones, mourning books and memorial plaques, as well as candles and flowers and we offer premium ones. You can even order custom designs if you wish. There is no monthly or yearly fees for our users.

How do I create a new virtual grave?

First you need to log in and click on the Add a grave link in the main menu. Then you will be guided through a simple process that will help you select the tombstone and accessories, mourning book and biography plaque. Once you are finished, the grave will be created and you will be able to fill in the details and even add a location of a physical grave.

How do I find a grave?

You can move left or right once you enter the memorial site and look for the grave there. Or you can use the search function to find the grave you are looking for.

How can I interact with other graves?

First you need to click on the selected tombstone to see the details. Then you can sign the mourning book if you wish or place a candle or flowers on the grave. You do not have to be a registered user to do this. Please note that all mourning book entries are shown when the grave creator confirms them.

What if I need help or have questions?

Please send a message with the contact form and we will answer it as soon as possible.

Is it possible to create more than one grave?

Caution: If you have already created a grave and order (add) a new grave, the new grave will replace the previous one. If you want to create more than one grave, you need to create a new account first.

Terms of service


Nothing must disturb the peace or the respect in this web site. Every new gravestone will be evaluated and all the users can report any inadequate use of the web site, so that no one gets offended.

Exclusive Rights over the Web Site Content

The entire Web Site content and all the content available through the Service, including designs, texts, charts, photos, videos, information, applications, software, music, sound and other files, together with their selection and disposal, are the sole property of the company, all rights reserved. No part of the web site content whatsoever can be modified, copied, distributed, framed, reproduced, republished, downloaded, shown, published, transferred or sold in any way or by any means whatsoever, totally or partially, without the previous written consent of the company.

Changes in Terms and Conditions

Lux Sit can and may introduce changes in the conditions as it sees fit. The user acknowledges and accepts that, by using Lux Sit services, he/she is stating that he/she accepts the terms and conditions.


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